| 对孩子要抱以期待之心 |
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页面 1 共 7 你的期待决定孩子的未来。孩子的一生都决定在你手中。
美国一位心理学家曾经做了以下的实验。这位心理学家请小学老师对孩子们做一种特别的测验，借此就能够预测孩子的将来。当然，并没有所谓能够预测“将来”的测验，实际进行的只是普通的智能测验而已，也就是说，老师们在一开始就受骗了。根据测验的结果，把被认为“将来”不错的孩子的名字列举出来。
但是这个结果并未公开发表，只有老师们知道而已。一年以后，让同样的孩子再做一次智能测验。结果发现上一次做测验时，被认为将来有希望的孩子的智商，比没有被列举出的孩子的智商高出了许多。对于这样的结果，我们如何解释呢？ 老师们在心中会想“这个孩子将来很有希望，所以一定要努力教育他”，但是并没有对孩子这么说。可是，任课老师对孩子的看法会改变，这种改变会对孩子造成影响。原本认为“他是静不下来的孩子”，可是因为测验结果良好，也许老师会认为“他是一个对于各种刺激都能够产生敏感反应的孩子”，从而改变了对孩子的看法。也就是说，如果认为这个孩子具有好的“将来”，则老师的看法会对孩子造成良好的影响。这位研究者将此效果命名为“皮格马利翁效应”。 皮格马利翁是希腊神话中生长于塞浦路斯的年轻天才雕塑家，他天生讨厌女人，本来想一辈子不结婚，但后来却爱上了自己的雕塑。皮格马利翁持续看着由大理石所雕塑出来的美丽女郎，不断奉献自己的爱，爱神维纳斯觉得他很可怜，于是给予石雕生命，让他们结为夫妻。 “皮格马利翁效应”就是如果以好的“眼光”来看孩子，那么对于孩子的发展会造成好的影响。当然，也有与“皮格马利翁效应”相反的效果，亦即如果以“蠢蛋”“没办法”“真糟糕”的心情来看待孩子，则对于孩子的发展会造成不良的影响。父母对孩子的这种看法，会使孩子丧失自信。原本应该伸展的芽，也会被摘除。无法得到父母期待的孩子，健全的成长会受到妨碍，无法充分地适应社会。 不论周围的人对于孩子的看法如何，做父母的一定要对孩子抱有期待之心，并认定“孩子将来一定会有发展”，如果连父母都放弃了，那么孩子就彻底失去希望了。给予你的孩子足够的期望，他也会成为“最幸运的人”。 只有注册会员才能发表评论，  加为收藏 (0) |  引用此文 | 点击: 992
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