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页面 1 共 50 孩子上网无节制，玩起游戏上瘾，很多家长为此烦恼。但真的没法子吗？网络社会，孩子不可能不接触电脑，所以，如何引导孩子对网络有清醒的认识才是最重要的。
儿子一岁多就开始玩电脑游戏，小时候只要有适合他的电脑游戏，我就会给他装上，和他一起玩。我们一起玩过的游戏有几百个，家里的游戏光盘也有几百张。记得第一张游戏光盘当时买的时候是400元。我们家的电脑盖子是敞开的，我们安装电脑，儿子都看得清清楚楚。 儿子上小学三年级的时候我就鼓励他上网，可惜他对网络没有太大的兴趣。那时，他只是偶尔在论坛发张帖子（跟帖的朋友还比较多），或是上网查查游戏秘籍。 四年级的寒假，我又鼓励他上网、交网友。我帮他注册QQ号，带他到联众打游戏，告诉他一些网络语言。我们家都是搞计算机的，家里专门有间机房，三台电脑排开，儿子的电脑在中间。在游戏中，儿子还真有了两个比较好的女网友，一个是24岁，一个是16岁。儿子请教我后，给自己设计的背景是“24岁，读研究生”，呵呵，不是教儿子撒谎，只是他说他才11岁，估计也没有人相信。我也希望，他将来在学业上真的有出息。 开始儿子经常让我和他进同一个游戏室，后来，儿子看我总抢他的风头，就撵我走。哈，走就走，我还有自己的事情呢。开始儿子很入迷，寒假的时候，上网会到半夜2点，在我的威逼下才依依不舍地下网——关机。我没有制止他上网，只是关注着他，我知道这是个必经的过程，现在不让他知道网络、网友和网络游戏是怎么回事，等儿子有一天在同学或朋友的影响下去体验这些的时候，恐怕就不是我所能控制的了。就像玩游戏，当很多的孩子都痴迷游戏的时候，我儿子根本就无所谓了，因为同样类型的游戏，他早就玩过了。 现在，儿子对网络游戏和网友聊天的兴趣已经没有什么了，只是有的时候，他会叮嘱我“见到我的朋友帮我问声好”，我会欣然回答“没问题”。 有一天，我问儿子：“你的同学知道你有网友吗？”儿子说“不知道，我没有说。” “为什么？”“因为他们觉得好像不太好。”“你怎么看？”“我以前也觉得网友不好，现在知道网友其实就是不见面的朋友，没有什么的。”我知道我的目的达到了。 五年级时候，很多同学开始到网吧。有天一大早，儿子同学的母亲就打电话过来，说我的儿子与他儿子—起去网吧玩，让她抓个正着。也许早就知道总会有这一天，我并没有感到太多的意外。当时，儿子在我的旁边已经立正站好，看来他已经知道电话的内容。不知道从什么时候开始，儿子犯错以后，总会很自觉地站直，估计是老师教育的结果。每次他站得很直的时候，我总是觉得很好笑。 我并不反对儿子去网吧玩，因为那里有很多的计算机使用得很出色的人，人多的地方，学的东西也多，也快。另外趁现在他还没有太大的瘾，让他知道网吧是怎么回事，总比大了才知道好。当然最重要的是防止他在网吧交到坏朋友，没有办法阻止就只能关注他的发展了。 于是我与儿子进行了谈话，提出了一系列很具体的可以考核的条件，并提出了相应的处罚措施。经过讨论，我和儿子签订了协议。协议签订后，我很详细地告诉了儿子一些在网吧的注意事项，以及发生问题应该怎么解决，比如不要和什么样的人交往，在和人交往中应该注意什么、座位应该选在什么地方，怎么选择安全的网吧，发生火灾怎么逃离等等。儿子去了很短的一段时间后，就不去网吧了，问他为什么，他说网吧环境太差，不如在家玩游戏舒服。后来网吧禁止未成年人进入，他就更不想着网吧了。 很多孩子都玩过大型的网络游戏，需要买点卡。儿子刚提出的时候，我考虑了很久，后来在假期的时候给他买了《传奇》点卡，一共买了两张。第二张没玩完，他就没什么兴趣玩了。在游戏中儿子有了自己的老婆、自己的粉丝和MM.由于儿子玩过《传奇》，后来《魔兽争霸》出来，虽然儿子也想玩，但是因为学习很紧张，这个游戏费时会很多，在给他讲清楚理由后，他也就没表现出太大的兴趣。我想如果以前我不让他玩《传奇》的话，他很可能就会背着我去玩这个游戏的。 儿子六年级时候，我开始让他正式在论坛玩。最初是写小说，儿子写出了1万多字的小说《英雄无敌》，他写作的生活来源就是他的网络游戏。他的小说在论坛发后，在新浪被评为精华帖。后来每个假期他都会写部中长篇小说，已经写了5部小说。除了写小说，他还写了很多文章。到目前为止，儿子在论坛写了8万字左右。还当“斑竹”，组织活动。 今年我开始鼓励儿子到雅虎的英语聊天室去聊天，我们去的房间是大学聊天室。儿子在那里认识了世界各地的朋友，有英国、美国、菲律宾、印度、韩国、新加坡、马来西亚、荷兰等等，年龄从9岁到47岁，职业各种各样。儿子和他们还进行邮件往来。聊天后儿子和我说的最多的一句话就是，我可是不能给中国人丢脸。怪不得人们经常说只有走出国门，你才知道自己是爱国的。在聊天和邮件中，儿子竭力介绍我们祖国的文化，比如介绍长城、庐山、北京等等。儿子英语的实际运用能力也有了很大的提高。儿子现在每天中午都会到网上看新闻；他最喜欢看的是军事方面的。 带着儿子在网络中一步步走来，我觉得网络真的很好，它让世界变小了，它让人们更容易地去汲取知识。 儿子走的每一步，我都是先走过来。我曾经非常痴迷网络游戏，所以我知道该怎么预防这种情况的发生。因为我总是比儿子先走一步，所以我一直是他的朋友加导师，使他可以少走很多弯路。要不让孩子痴迷网络游戏，这是个长期的工作，不是简单的靠思想政治工作可以解决的。没有痴迷过游戏的人，是很难理解其中的挣扎的。 儿子夸我是“最开明的妈妈”。 只有注册会员才能发表评论，  加为收藏 (0) |  引用此文 | 点击: 4390
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